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3 things to consider when telling your kids about your divorce

Divorce is a hard topic for people to discuss when they are getting ready for or are in the midst of the process. It is even more challenging to figure out how to break the news to your kids. The longer you wait to say something about the divorce in Nashua, the harder it will be for them to accept and adapt. 

It best for you to stop procrastinating and tell them. Here are a few pointers that can make it easier for you to talk to your children about divorce

Be honest 

It might seem like sugarcoating things is the way to go to minimize the problems. However, if you lie to your children, they will most likely know. They understand more than you think and will eventually learn about the divorce from watching the way their parents interact with each other and the conversations they hear. They are very intuitive and might already be aware of the situation because of the things they have observed in the household. 

Address their concerns 

Your kids are bound to have questions about why the divorce is occurring. To them, their once stable home is being torn apart. Allow them to voice their concerns and questions. Do not ignore any of them. When your children ask for details about why you and their other parent are splitting up, politely replay that information is between you and your partner. Giving them too much information and private details about your decision to separate will give the kids ammo to blame the parent they feel is responsible. Stress to them that you and their other parent are not mad at them and do not blame them for this situation. 

Allow kids to express their feelings 

You do not know how your children will react to the news until you tell them. It is normal for kids to internalize their feelings and lash out at the people closest to them. Do not take anything they say or do towards you personally. Encourage your children to express themselves, especially if they are worried about the divorce. This will keep them from suppressing their feelings and lower the chances of them acting out.

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